Are you ready?

It’s time for a new parenting normal!

Together, we’ll leave behind the yelling, overwhelm, and paralyzing frustration!

Do you feel pushed to your absolute limit? Like you can’t give another ounce of yourself?

Is it time for everyone to listen (probably your partner, too) BEFORE you’re yelling?

Are you overwhelmed with burning the candle at…all…the ends?

And what if nothing works before it’s too late? Will you make it through these years with a relationship that is salvageable? We’ve seen the adult child “no contact” Tiktoks.

You are a big hearted parent, who wants the world for your kids, but you’re still missing each other somehow?

How are you supposed to get them to HEAR you?

Could you make some small changes that bring big results?

Yes, you can.

And it’s not too late to start! This information has been kept in professional circles for far too long.

How do I know?

Because I’ve done it! I’m a therapist and behavior specialist, but my most important credential is that I’m a parent.

Every day, I help teachers and parents care for children, and I’ve realized that what gets taught to parents in therapy rooms and classrooms all across the country, is what ALL parents need to calm their homes and change their lives!

This information has been kept in professional circles alone for far too long. It’s time to leave the gatekeeping behind so you can care for yourself and your kids well.

The best part?

It’s so much easier than you think to solve even the problems that feel unsolvable and build a strong and healthy relationship with their child.

This is the day you say goodbye to yelling, feeling ignored, bribing, and worrying about what kind of people your kid, or kids, will grow up to be.

Introducing …

I see you.

You want a healthy and trusting relationship with your children – based on love, care, respect, working together, and dare I say…being on the same team!

You just want to protect them…but it’s hard when you see them barreling toward big mistakes, especially when they aren’t listening to your advice.

You want them to learn to take care of their spaces…but everything from taking out the trash to putting away their toys becomes a draining power struggle.

You just want them to put on the dang jacket to go out into the cold … but it becomes a battle of wills.

You want to spend quality time with them…but parenting through all these challenges means you’re fighting instead of connecting like you want to.

Calm your Home, Change your Life will give you the tools, strategies, and overall roadmap to get on the same page as your kid, to calm your home, and well … change your life.

No more …

Figuring out which advice to take.

Sorting through your saved videos on Instagram or TikTok.

Wondering how the influencers or your friends make it look so easy.

With this course, the most current research and science-backed strategies come to you in one convenient package.

When you have that overall roadmap, and the strategies to implement them, there’s nothing you and your child can’t figure out together!

OUT with the outdated information, random tips and tricks without any real science, and IN with proven human behavior strategies, real mental health tools that work, and judgement free parenting! *side by side*

You don’t have to continue struggling. Instead, get the tools necessary to build up you, your child, and your relationship every day.

After some embarrassing on-field meltdowns, we realized our little guy needed a season away from his favorite sport to work on some coping skills. That was hard for all of us. Kirsty helped us do that, and now we’re back on the field! We all look forward to his games now, and I don’t wake up with knots in my stomach because I don’t know what version of my son his team will get that day. Now, we have a plan for when he has “big feelings.”

-A’s mom

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My teenage daughter and I lived parallel lives. If we got too close, emotionally or just spending too much time together, we would start to fight. She was left to solve some of her own problems without me, and I constantly worried about her. She saw Kirsty for therapy, and after some parent coaching, I feel much better about how connected we are. I always wanted a close relationship with my daughter, and now I can say we have that. I’m not saying it’s perfect, because we both still have hard days, but now we know how to recover from them and move.

-D’s mom

You’re caring for your kids, but if you’re here (HI!), you know that SOMETHING is not working.

Stop throwing spaghetti and the wall and seeing what sticks, and no more chaos.

You’re tired, but help has arrived.

Through almost two decades of working in schools, and directly with parents, I’ve discovered simple processes and small tweaks that deliver big results for families.

It’s just not the unsolvable problem that it feels like sometimes! Human behavior is human behavior, and in this program you’ll learn how to apply it to your family.

I’m going to teach you:

How to monitor and adjust the “emotional thermostat” of your home (someone’s gotta do it, seriously)
How to care for yourself as a parent (you have no idea how much this helps)
How to work through conflict with your kids, and repair your relationship (better than ever before)
How to navigate parenting when you and spouse come from homes with different parenting styles

In Calm your Home, Change your Life, I’m handing you the roadmap to a calm and connected parenting journey.

If I’m being honest, 85% of parenting conflicts can be resolved with the first three modules. They are seriously just that powerful!

Module 1: Your Parenting Destination

This module is the groundwork for supporting yourself and your child. It’s the foundation of childhood behavior management in almost all settings. This is where you decide what kind of parent you want to be, and how you want to get there.

Best of all, you don’t have to do it alone.

You’ll learn about …

Building Parental Confidence
Scripting your Truths
Taking Morality out of Parenting
Functions of Behavior
ABC’s of Child Behavior
Childhood Confidence
Monitoring and adjusting the “Emotional Thermostat” of the Hom

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Module 2: Vehicles for Cooperative Parenting

A calm and connected family begins with how you design the environment. In this module, you’ll learn how to set up your home life for success.

You’ll learn about …

Schedules and Routines
Motivation (Child and Caregiver)
Tier 1 Behavior Supports
Routine sheets, Boards, Charts
Rewards
Target Behaviors and Replacement Behaviors

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Module 3: The Pleasant Parenting Toolkit/Mindful Parenting Packing List

On the parenting journey, it’s important you pack the right tools. In this module, you’ll learn how to make parenting not only manageable but mindful and fun for you and your little ones..

You’ll learn about …

Conflict and Refusal
Be a detective
Assume positive intent
Co-regulation
Emotional Check-ins
Zones of regulation
Emotional thermometer
When and how to teach coping skills
Restorative Practices

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Module 4: Your Unique Path/Itinerary

Kids, parents, and parenting, are not one-size-fits-all. You and your child (or children!) are unique, and Module 4 gives that extra layer of education and support for some of the journey’s unique circumstances.

You’ll learn about …

Parenting Neurodivergent Children
School (Testing and Support)
Parenting Highly Sensitive Children

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Module 5: Troubleshooting the Journey

Even with the best laid plans, every journey has challenges, roadblocks, and reroutes. In this module, we explore, what to do if things “don’t work” to understandwhat could be going wrong, especially when the reasons for challenging behavior are less than obvious, and the options for more support if you or your child need it.

You’ll learn about …